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The Adoption
Council of Canada is not an adoption agency. It is an information
and referral service. It's role in the process is to make
Canadians aware of waiting Canadian children and to make agencies
aware of families who are willing to adopt waiting children.
The decision on which family a child is to be placed with
relies solely on the decision of the child's agency and worker
in consultation with the social worker or agency with whom
the family is working. The ACC has no role in this process.
Although
details vary from agency to agency and province to province,
the basic adoption process for domestic adoption in Canada
is similar across the country.
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INITIAL
INTAKE MEETING |
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When
first applying to a public adoption agency, applicants are usually
required to attend an intake meeting. At this meeting the agency
outlines what procedures are to be followed and approximately
what the waiting period will be. Information about children
for whom they are currently seeking homes is also provided. |
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FORMAL
APPLICATION |
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If
applicants are still interested in proceeding after this meeting,
they are asked to complete a formal application. At this point
applicants will begin to realize that the adoption process
is intrusive. Applicants are asked questions that are very
personal and sometimes difficult to answer - questions that
most people have never had to think about. A medical exam
is also required, with the results sent to the agency. A police
check may be required, and references will be asked for, which
will be checked.
Some
agencies require at this point that applicants take a pre-homestudy (see below) preparation course. The purpose of this
course is to allow applicants to better assess their ability
to parent the children available for adoption. It is not unusual
for families to withdraw from the process at this point, or
delay it while they reconsider whether adoption is really
for them.
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THE
HOMESTUDY |
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There
may be a waiting period before a social worker is able to
do an applicant's homestudy. One of the determining factors
in how quickly a homestudy is begun is whether the child or children
waiting for a family are the types of children the applicants
have indicated a willingness to adopt.
People
have very different ideas of what a homestudy is. Some think
it's just a matter of filling out forms. Others think it is
an inspection process. In reality, it's an educational process
that allows the adoption agency to assess an applicant's ability
to deal with the issues which adoption raises. It helps prepare
applicants for the challenges of parenting an adopted child
and help them determine if they are ready.
The homestudy usually begins with interviews done separately
and with spouses, if applicants are applying as a couple.
Initial interviews usually take place at an agency workers'
office. This is followed by at least one home visit, where
an agency worker meets with other members of an applicant's
family. Additionally, group meetings are often held with other
prospective adoptive families.
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FINAL
DECISION |
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The
entire process may take a short period of time or several
months, depending on a variety of factors, including worker
caseload. Once completed, a report is written and presented
to agency personnel for approval. The decision to accept a
family for adoption normally does not rest with one individual.
One
thing that is required of all applicants is patience. It may
take the better part of a year to be approved for adoption.
And if, at any time during the process, applicants decide
that adoption is not for them, they are free to withdraw.
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CHILDREN'S
NEEDS CONSIDERED FIRST |
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When
considering adoption, remember that the purpose of adoption
is to find families for children, not children for families.
Meeting the needs of children waiting for families is the main
priority. Everyone involved in the process is acting in the
best interests of the child. Applicants may face disappointment
and discouragement but may also be richly rewarded. |
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JOINING
AN ADOPTION SUPPORT GROUP |
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Because
the process can be emotionally draining and filled with highs
and lows, applicants are advised to join an adoption support
group. Support groups not only provide emotional support, but
also allow applicants to learn from the experience of others.
It's also very encouraging to learn that others have successfully
adopted children. Finally, meeting the children others have
adopted helps put a very real face on the children in need of
homes. |
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© Canada's Waiting
Children |
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